Your first date can and will be nerve-wracking. You want to create a good impression but you don't want to say, or do the wrong things. The dating tips will help you get through those crucial first few hours.
1.) For the first date, keep it short and casual - a maximum of two hours. It is always a good idea not to collect her from her home on the first date, arrange to meet in a public place. Women get nervous about dating too, especially if you met online and she's worried about the safety aspects.
2.) Paying on the first date is something most guys don't know what to do about. The rule of thump is simple, if you want to see her again, insist on paying. If she offers to pay half, say no. Some women will offer to pay half of the tab to be polite, but if you let her do that there is a good chance that your first date will also be your last. At least pay the full tab for the first three dates, and if she wants to pay half after that you can let her.
3.) Ask questions. Do not make the mistake that so many guys make by rambling on about yourself. Women get tired of dating men who do all the talking. Ask plenty questions, it will show that you're genuinely interested in getting to know her as a person. Prepare yourself by searching online for tips on what questions to ask.
Dating Tips for Guys: After the First Date
4.) Even if you fall madly in love, don't mention your burning desire to marry her and have a dozen kids in the first four months of dating. If she's not ready to commit to a serious relationship, you'll probably scare her to death. On the other hand, if she does bring up the subject of marriage and kids don't let it worry you too much either though.
5.) She's probably just keen to know if whether you share the same views and goals on marriage and children. After all, she doesn't want to waste time dating guys who have the totally opposite goals.
6.) Remember woman will most of the time say something but mean completely something else. So if you do or say something that upset her, or do something that annoy her and she tells you its ok, she probably doesn't mean its ok. What she really means is she'll let you off the hook this time but do it again and you're history.
7.) Always keep it fresh, so many guys make the mistake of spending all their time at each others homes and in each others company. This will quickly turn the relationship stale. Dating is supposed to be fun and if you see too much of each other and give up to many of your own interests you will start to resent each other.
Try out these tips but remember these dating tips for guys won't work on all women, each one is different and an individual in their own right. Remember dating is meant to be a fun way to find the right woman to share your life with. Not everyone is destined to be your lifelong partner, so relax and don't take every date too seriously.
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